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Parents, here are some questions for you: How in the world do you cope with bringing up your children in these perilous times? Do you have any peace of mind about their future? Upon what foundation do you base your (and therefore, their) judgments of "right" and "wrong"? And, on top of all that, what are you doing to prepare them for eternity?

Is there any doubt in anyone's mind that we are living in perilous times? II Timothy 3:1-5 describes perilous times like this:

"This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, truce-breakers, false accusers,incontinent(lewd),fierce (savage), despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away."

What an accurate description of the condition of man this is! How, dear parent, are you going to keep your child from becoming any one of these?

When you try to teach them "right" from "wrong," what reason can you give them for why something is "right" or "wrong" if you don't have the Word of God, Jesus Christ, as your foundation? How can you teach your child that it is morally "wrong" to be selfish, for example, in a world that promotes it? The best you can do is point out to them that it is often not in their own best interest to be selfish, so it's best not to behave that way. What happens when they feel it is in their best interest to be selfish either now or when they get older? What will they look to within themselves to decide whether they should or shouldn't be selfish? Will they hear a still, small voice that says,"And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity (love), it profiteth me nothing."? (I Cor. 13:3) Or, will they hear, "Look out for number one! You only go around once in this life! You've got to do what's right for you!"?

How are you going to teach them to keep themselves pure, not to fornicate, to wait until they're married, when they're bombarded daily with advertisements, music, television shows, movies, and behaviors that practically scream at them to do just the opposite? Will the voice inside them say, ". . .abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul" (I Pet. 2:11), or will they hear, "If it feels good, do it!"?

Even if you could manage to instill in your children some firm convictions about morality and decency and some values that contradict the ever-increasing tide of lawlessness and debauchery coming upon society, what good would it do them outside of the Kingdom of God? What place will those values have in a society that exalts all manner of corruption and sin? They will need a haven from the world and the condition of man. Where can you parents who are outside of the Kingdom of God—which is the ONLY haven from a world in turmoil—where can you tell them to escape to?

Consider what the world will probably be like in 50 years. Jesus Christ spoke about a very troubled world in the last days (Matt. 24). With the Lord you can have peace in your heart regarding your children's future because they will always be able to find sanctuary in the Body of Christ.

The Word of God declares that ". . . when the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the Lord shall lift up a standard against him." (Isa. 59:19) As long as your children follow the Lord, they have a fulfilling life to look forward to, in spite of a world in turmoil.

And, when this life is over, they can go on to unending joy in heaven, rather than unending misery in hell. Clearly, our biggest responsibility as parents is to teach our children about the Lord, and to do everything we can to cause them to follow Him.

So often as parents we'll neglect ourselves before our children because we love them. We would feel terible if they had to suffer for something we could have prevented. For example, we may not go to the doctor when we're sick, but we take them because we don't want to let anything go untreated that should be treated, right?

Well, what about their future in these perilous times? Will you, as parents, neglect to give your children what they need to survive?

Perhaps you've felt you could manage without Christ, but what about them? Perhaps you've even joked about hell and said something like, "Well. at least I'll have lots of company, ha-ha!"

Hell is no joke—it's real! (Ps. 9:17, Matt. 10:28, Luke 16:23, Rev. 1:18, Rev. 20:13-14) Do you want your children to end up in eternal torment someday because you rejected Christ and, by your actions, taught them to do the same?

You have nothing of any lasting worth to lose, and everything of lasting worth to gain, by repenting and making Jesus Christ your Lord and Master. And, if you are parents who have asked Christ to be your Saviour and Lord, the questions we need to ask ourselves daily are, "Are we living right? Are we the example to our children Christ wants us to be?" Can we say to them, "Follow us as we follow Him."?

For your sake and especially for the sake of your children, and even your children's children, don't reject Jesus Christ and His standard for your life. Instead, say what Joshua said in Jos. 24:15: ". . .As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."

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